How To Easily Keep A Conversation Going

Have you ever found yourself deep in conversation with a beautiful woman… With her interest in you visibly peaking… And then, before you know it, what’s this? You just completely and totally run out of things to say. So you stand there, desperately wondering how to keep a conversation going long enough for her to not lose interest and walk off…

Believe me, I’ve been there.

And for the longest time it was God damn annoying!

But what if there’s an easier way than having to nervously cycle through topics in your head, desperately hoping to resurrect the interest of this beautiful woman?

What if your very attempt at keeping a conversation going is what’s actually harming your ability to do so?

Don’t sweat it brother, I’ve got your back!

How To Easily Keep A Conversation Going (With A Beautiful Gal!)

“Can you remain unmoving until the right action arises by itself?” – Tao Te Ching

Do you ‘run out of things to say’ when you’re with your friends?

Do you desperately try to ‘stay interesting’ when you’re with your friends?

Do you worry about how to keep a conversation going when you’re with your friends?

I’d venture a guess that, no, you don’t… So why does our normal behaviour just fly out the window when it comes to beautiful women?

I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again: the greatest journey a man can ever embark on is the one of minimizing the gap between who he thinks he is, and who he truly is.

Read that again for it sink in.

Practically speaking, I want you to pay attention to your tendency to bifurcate.

In other words; you’re one person when you’re with friends and family… And a totally different person when you’re with women.

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“The master doesn’t seek fulfillment. Not seeking, not expecting, he is present and can welcome all things.” – Tao Te Ching

You see, your propensity to bifurcate and the reason you run out of things to say are deeply connected. They are caused by the same exact problem, and is manifesting in your inability to keep a conversation going when around a beautiful woman.

Brother, the reason this happens is that you feel you have to put on a mask with women.

This really is the crux of the matter…

It’s your attempt to appear as something that you aren’t, which reveals a deep wound, and ultimately manifests in your self-sabotage.

Yes… Self-sabotage!

How NOT To Keep A Conversation Going

“If you want to become full, let yourself be empty. If you want to be reborn, let yourself die. If you want to be given everything, give everything up.” – Tao Te Ching

This isn’t your fault either.

I was talking to my youngest cousin the other day. He’s a handsome bastard that one, and at just 17 already stands a head taller than me.

We were talking about women, and I asked him if he had his first girlfriend yet, to which he responded “No… I don’t have any money…”

I was shocked!

But the fact is, the idea that you need to be an ‘MLM’ guy as I like to call them (Money, Looks, Muscles) was a sham from it’s very inception…

And I’ll prove it to you right now…

This Is How You Keep A Conversation Going

“Because he doesn’t display himself, people can see his light. Because he has nothing to prove , people can trust his words.” – Tao Te Ching

The other day, I read this AMAZING study: A university research team decided to test out the extent of the ‘sex sells’ mantra. So they took a group of volunteers and, on a sunny day, put a light coat of sunblock on participant’s foreheads in the shape of the word ‘Sex’ and let them tan until it just LIGHTLY altered the color of their skin. They then released them for a week and told them to keep a journal of their experiences.

You can probably guess where this is going…

A week later, every participant recorded in their journals as being treated better by just about everyone they encountered. That includes baristas serving their morning coffees, people they interacted with – even their bosses!

Here’s the best part…

Turns out, only one third of people had sex written on their foreheads… The other third had a random word, and the other third had water applied to their foreheads and so had nothing there to begin with.

By virtue of expecting the to be desired, they were able to relax and be themselves, and the world around them changed to fit that reality.

So how does this help you keep a conversation going?

What I’m trying to say brother, is that by virtue of trying to be someone that isn’t you, you’re hitting the breaks on the your own ability to naturally be magnetic to women

And when you let yourself go… When you stop trying and just let yourself be whole – the same with friends or with women, the same in victory and defeat, just fully centered and at ease in your own skin – you’ll stop worrying about these trivialities, relax into the moment, step outside your head and have amazing conversations with gorgeous women who adore being around you because you are YOU!

Ouf. Have to catch my breath there.

Don’t believe me?

Go try it out – go out with the intention of simply NOT trying, and even rest in the awkward silence for a bit. You’ll see what happens 😉

Give. Love. Serve.

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